Thursday, September 22, 2016

9/22/16-Let It Begin With Me

Bentley & Nonni on a cold, wet, lazy day. 9/22/16

Please believe me – this is not a political ad. I will delete any comments that try to make it so. I am sad and confused by the recent actions of many – especially those I know personally, others from coast-to-coast, as well as those abroad. I am truly concerned so I share this with anyone that takes the time to read it.

I’m not only concerned, sad, and confused; I have come to realize that I am also genuinely afraid. Or at least I was until I wrote this post.

My nephew is celebrating his 13th birthday today (Happy birthday Wesley!), and I recently met 3 incredible, adorable toddlers. I fell in love with them.


Alexis, 8/13/16. Hayley & Kenzie, 8/27/16
It was surreal for me to realize this evening that I am fearful even for them. A popular phrase is going around, “What is this world coming to?” Lately I find myself chanting the same words. Then I remembered that I probably first started hearing that phrase on my own 13th birthday! Fear over the state of our nation, the affairs of the world, and for our youth and for our environment are nothing new.

They may be at new heights however. And we may be keenly aware of them, sometimes in real time, thanks to the internet. And the wars and the woes may be more rampant than they’ve ever been, but that doesn’t have to be our reality. And it doesn’t need to control us – not me, not you, not anyone.

Having said that, I want you to know that the following paragraph was what I started off writing. It was my original thought. As is often the case with writing however, this next paragraph transformed into something positive in the paragraphs beyond it. Please keep reading.

I do not understand how anyone can use words like – love, peace, greatness – in the same sentence, paragraph, discussion, universe as Trump. He proudly promotes violence, hate, arrogance and racism. Aren’t those traits purportedly the antithesis of ‘Christianity’? By definition then it should be hypocritical to claim allegiance to both. Some of my friends and even random comments, especially in social media, have shocked me as of late. Hypocrisy and atrocities abound throughout history under the banners of religion and freedom, but conflict never unites. It does not unite causes, nations, or people. Ever.

Cop killings, Black Lives Matter, #NODAPL, Treaties being broken (again), Abusive Use of Powers, Preservation of Public Lands, Aleppo, our next President, Corrupt politicians, Education, Animal and Child Abuse, Domestic Violence, and the legacies from each of these issues –are all VERY important to me. And the attention I am giving to the conflicts within each is killing me – literally. I can tell.

Unity and healing (on all levels) comes from heartfelt connection and from empathy through understanding. So I hold this nation, we the people, in the brightest light possible of true love, peace and greatness. I have hope. I still believe in humanity and I know with every fiber of my being that we are One. “Love never fails” and the “truth shall set us free.” When those traits reign, we all win. Please vision it with me – that and only that.

Let it begin with me. You’ll see no more negativity from me. When I stumble into the darkness of fear whether it’s for our country, humanity, our land, or for our future generations, I will remember that I stand for love. I promote peace. And within that, all is well, always.

I have forgotten my basic beliefs lately, opting instead to get caught up in all the angst that floods our media and the internet. I will devote myself to the renewal of my soul, heart and mind by concentrating on that which I know to be pure and true. Even in the causes that are important to me, I can shift my attention and my devotion to transforming them, not fighting, struggling, hating or fearing within them. It is love and light that will have my attention moving forward. I share my beliefs with you here in case you need the reminder too:

God is Spirit, the loving source of all that is. God is the one power, all good, everywhere present, all wisdom. God is divine energy, continually creating, expressing and sustaining all creation. In God, we live and move and have our being. In Unity, some other ways we speak of God are Life, Light, Love, Substance, Principle, Law and Universal Mind.

1. God is the source and creator of all. There is no other enduring power. God is good and present everywhere.
2. We are spiritual beings, created in God’s image. The spirit of God lives within each person; therefore, all people are inherently good.
3. We create our life experiences through our way of thinking.
4. There is power in affirmative prayer, which we believe increases our awareness of God.
5. Knowledge of these spiritual principles is not enough. We must live them.

And so it is.

When you listen to the song below, think of Nature, Oneness, Love and Peace. I love you. Together, UNITED, we’ve got this.

"Sanctuary" written by Randy Scrugs & John W. Thompson


  1. I tend to be something of a news junkie (I blame the decade spent as a journalist), but I increasingly find myself needing to tune out for my own emotional, mental, and spiritual well being. It is hard to stay positive amid a never-ending onslaught of 24/7 negative news.

    So glad you were able to write it out and find yourself in a better place. Writing is always great therapy for me, in addition to being my job :)

    1. Thanks Robert. I appreciate you understanding the sentiment of my post.

  2. I remember way back when people talking about nuclear war, over population and every manner of bad things that could go happen, often using the way the world was as a reason not to have a family. But things do go on ... they have for tens of thousands of years.
    We do the best we can, we do it day to day. It's enough for me.

  3. "The warrior's approach is to say 'yes' to life: 'yea' to it all. Participate joyfully in the sorrows of the world. We cannot cure the world of sorrows, but we can choose to live in joy. When we talk about settling the world's problems, we're barking up the wrong tree. The world is perfect. It's a mess. It has always been a mess. We are not going to change it. Our job is to straighten out our own lives." Joseph Campbell

    Words I try to live by.
    Sending you peace and love beams.

    1. I love this! Thank you, Yolanda. "Peace and love beams" (sweet!) to you too.

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  5. I deleted my comment because it said way to much. to say what I said in short, is evil has been around since the beginning of time and will be when it ends... nothing new under the sun at all. just more ways to spread it around

    1. Hi Sandra, I received your other comment by email and agree that the internet has a lot to do with it. I'm glad I don't have TV - haven't for years. Sending you wishes for a speedy, easy recovery dearest.

  6. Hi Debra,

    It really is just heart breaking what us humans are doing to one another. Sometimes I just can't bear to hear the news, especially when it is something horrible to animals, children and so many innocent people. I feel like people are somehow turning in to zombies. Things feel so bad I just want to get in to nature and feel some relief.

    Big hug to you,


    1. I hear you Tina. I found myself drowning in it too. But no more. I encourage you to turn it all off and if nature connects you to Oneness and the positive energy flow of the infinite, then I hope you are able to enjoy it often. Big hugZ back!

    2. In the 7 weeks I have been on the road, I can honestly say I have not watched even 1 newscast, not read even 1 newspaper, and I skip right by the news headlines on the internet. My cell phone is off for days on end, often I have no signal anyway! lol....I read your post and was reminded of a bible verse, I believe in Matthew, about not worrying about tomorrow for tomorrow will have its own problems.....and we can't change them......I don't worry about things anymore. I take it one day at a time.

  7. I never comment on blogs so just seeing if it works for me.


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